Wedding 101

You only get married once.. at least I will. And if this is your first time you probably have no clue of what you are supposed to be doing and how you must do it. Let me tell you how I have experienced this wedding grandeur event.

First you are all excited about what's to come... The Dress!!! Let's admit it almost all of us dream of the perfect dress, then the bridesmaid dresses and our bridal party, the rings, the ceremony, the reception, the favors, the honeymoon! Am I missing something?... Duh!! The Groom!!! First thing in the list.
                1. This is HIS wedding too

Now lets move on the topic which our favorite... The dress, oh my gosh! You have a bazillion gazillion options up there. My advice try at least 5 that you really like and choose upon those five, why? if you keep looking and looking you will only get confused and overwhelmed and you will not know which one fitted you better. So second on the list.
             
               2. Try at least 5 dresses and decide!

Now let us be serious girls, bridesmaid dresses.... it has been a nightmare for me! If you believe in modesty this is going the be toughest thing ever, start looking NOW as soon as possible. Also look for the option to have then made for each of your girls.

                3. Look for bridesmaid dresses ASAP


If you are short on money... welcome to the club. I have zero nothing money and I am making my way through it. It is hard but is possible. A lot of times I just want to iloop, sound easier and faster and cheaper, but oooh stupid society has taught us that we need a wedding! Oh well, let's face it we want a  beautiful big wedding, with lots of guests and good food. Wake up chicky! you are gonna have to humble yourself and work with what you have. Fourth on the list

                4. Decorations

You have some awesome resources like:

*Pinterest (follow me and see my wedding board)
*Dollar store
*Hobby Lobby
*Amazon
*efavormarket.com
and *Pinterest again



If your fiance wants to be part of  this.. LET HIM BE PART OF IT! it is your day as much as its his.

DO NOT fight for material stuff.... fight and argue about how many kids you guys will have and when.

Next on my list I would say is the rings. Because they tend to be expensive and the rings are really important to me so we wanted to get pretty ones. Now I understand you wanna have the ultimate bling and big stones... girls this is a burden for you fiance, he only wants to give you the best. Help him and help yourself and look for rings that in your budget. Maybe you can get some financial aid from the jewelry store. And save money so the down payment  would be big and then you don't have to worry as much to paid them of, or however is paying for the rings

                5. Ring hunt (remember... down to earth)


There are way more to write. I will add numbers as the planning progresses. Thank you for taking the time and write comments if you have better ideas.

Peace out!